BEING POSITIVE TOWARDS YOURSELF (2)

BELIVING IN YOURSELF
Each day in the life of every person on earth brings forth a new thing.But you can only bring out the best in you when you say the right thing to yourself. We talk to ourselves sunconsciously,without even thinking about it,it's not about the things you say,it's about saying the positive things to ourselves.But most of us fail to say the rightwors and see themselves in a negative way. I discovered that most people just see themselves in a negative way from when were kids cause the wrong and negative people made them who they are.
Beliving in yourself is about having confidence in yourself by seeing yourself in the positive way,stop saying i am a bad student,i am a bad friend,i can't cope with my spouse,i can't be a good father.Pay attention to the things you say cause they go a long way to affect who you are and your generation to come. Start using the right words and a positive mind set as you get out of bed,say to yourself today wil be a great day,i will achieve more today,i will better my relationship...Saying it alone will make you feel great,backing it up with your actions will make you better.Don't give up on yourself when God have not given up on you. You most have heard that you create your world with your word,just a nice word to yourself will make you feel great,develop the right attittude towards yourself.Stop the bitter and harsh expression to yourself,re-difine how you see yourself,how you think about yourself,and how you talk to yourself.When you re-define who you are by saying am a son of a living God,remind yourself how you succeeded in the past,use it as an inspiration to move you,but don't do well in your past cause you have greater things to achieve in the future.

BEING POSITIVE TOWARDS YOURSELF(1)

Most people fail to find something good about themselves cause they fail to realise how special they are.No person on earth is a failure untill that person accept he is a failure. You can begin to be positive and see the good in you by;
LEARNING TO LIKE YOURSELF: Most people hate who they are and wish they could change their looks,their skin colour,their body shape etc.But we fail to acknowledge the fact that we were created by a perfect God.Learn to accept the yourself the way you are cause they are people out there that wish they were you.Accepting yourself is not just about your looks,it's about looking deep into who you are.There is need for improvement in diffrent aspects of our life,it maybe in the area of charachter,discipline,self respect.It's been said that before you love someone,you have to love yourself.Accept your faults and take a stand to improve in the are that you are lacking.Stop blaming someone for the mistake you made.Learn each day to get out of bed no matter how bad you feel and declear 'Father,i thank you for making me this special and wonderful.Most times, you think that God is looking at what you have done wrong,no God is looking at what you have done right.Begin to regard and see yourself in a positive way,learn to love something about yourself cause you are wonderfully mad.Learn to move away from the negative people and stop being depressed.Get involved in what you love doing and see how good you are at it,that's a sign of a new development.Don't accept any negative comment about who you are.The only opinion about your life that you need is from God and yourself.LOVING YOURSELF IS THE BEST WAY TO BEGIN YOUR DAY.

LITTLE THINGS THAT MATTERS IN LIFE

Remember to spend some time with your loved ones,because they would not be around forever.
Remember to say a kind word to some one who looks up to you,because that little person will soon grow up and leave your side.
Remember to give a warm hug to the one next to you,because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a rent.
Remember to say I LOVE YOU to your partner and your loved ones,but most of all,mean it.
A kiss and an embrace will mend a hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment,for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love,give time to speak,and give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER,life is not measured by the number of breath we take,but by the moments that takes our breath away.